A guided ritual for couples

The 20-Minute
Money Date.

A calm, judgement-free conversation about money — together, on the same team. Use this page as your weekly ritual. Nothing is saved on a server; your answers stay on this device.

Three rules

Set the table before you sit down.

01

Same team, same side of the table.

You're not opponents. You're co-founders of a small household business.

02

Numbers before feelings, feelings before decisions.

Look at what's real first. Then talk about what it means. Then choose.

03

20 minutes. Then stop.

If it isn't solved in 20 minutes, it's a bigger conversation — book another date.

The ritual

Twenty minutes. Five steps.

Hit start when you're both ready. The timer will guide you through each block.

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Minutes 0–2

Warm up & set the tone

2 min

Before numbers, before spreadsheets — connect. Take a breath together. Agree this is a team meeting, not a trial.

Partner A
Partner B

Your Money Date

A record to keep.

Everything you wrote, in one place. Print it, save it as a PDF, or just come back to it before your next date.

The golden rule

“You're allowed to disagree about money. You're not allowed to keep score. Write it down, sleep on it, come back next week.”

Stuck? You don't have to figure it out alone.

Talking about money is hard.

If you found yourselves getting stuck, you don't have to fix it alone. As an ACCA-qualified accountant and accredited coach, I act as an objective, zero-judgement referee. I help untangle the emotions and build a fair cashflow system. So you never have to fight about spreadsheets again.

Let's get sorted. Book a free, 30-minute Chemistry Call with me today.

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